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Finding America in a Small Mechanic Shop: A Story About Service and Unity
At the beginning of the new year, I took my car to the mechanic because we felt a vibration when driving and accelerating. Of course, when you hear “axle” or “transmission,” it’s like the beginning of a nightmare. Transmission issues alone can empty your wallet faster than you can say, “What’s the damage?” We decided…
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How to Thrive Over the Next 4 Years
A new administration is in power, and with it comes a wave of old values, uncertainty, and turbulence. Many of us didn’t vote for this change, but it’s our current reality. This is a time of noise, misinformation, hate, anger, and fear. Expectations for the next four years? Low. Some might even say we should…
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We’ve Come a Long Way
Sitting at the auto mechanic this morning, I found myself captivated by a talk show featuring three dynamic Black women. They were intelligent, relatable, and undeniably entertaining. Watching them reminded me just how far we’ve come as a society, especially in terms of representation. Growing up, everything I saw on TV was white. From sitcom…
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Still a Giants Fan… But It’s Complicated
I’ve been wrestling with my relationship with the NFL for a while now. The Colin Kaepernick situation left a bitter taste in my mouth, raising questions about the league’s values and its treatment of players who stand up—or kneel—for what they believe in. Beyond that, the glaring disparity in ownership and leadership opportunities for people…
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Am I Washed? Navigating Life as a Social Dad in DC
The other day, I was talking to a friend about how dry DC feels to me. I complained that I don’t see any exciting events happening, which is strange because I’ve always been the guy who knows what’s going on in the social scene. But since moving here, becoming a husband, and stepping into fatherhood,…
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Resolutions: Keeping It Simple and Staying Focused
As 2024 came to a close, many of us took time to reflect on where we stand in life. Have we accomplished the goals we set for ourselves? Did we reach our health milestones? Are our finances where we want them to be? Ultimately, we find ourselves asking: Are we truly happy with where we…
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A Cozy First: Lighting Up Our Fireplace
October 2023, we moved into a beautifully renovated wooden house built in 1934. It has all the charm of a classic New England home paired with the modern updates we love. The master bedroom on the first floor features a double vanity and a massive walk-in closet—an absolute dream. Outside, there’s a sprawling backyard with…
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A World Consumed by Flames: Reflections on Loss, Change, and Hope
Watching the fires ravage homes and entire neighborhoods in LA is nothing short of surreal. The images of houses engulfed in flames are heartbreaking, and as I scroll through social media, I’m reminded of how close this disaster feels to home. Many of my friends have posted updates, expressing relief that they’re safe, and for…
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First Snowstorm of 2025: A Lesson in Preparedness and Winter Fun
As a full-time stay-at-home dad and entrepreneur, I decided to take a part-time job at Lowe’s last year. It felt like a good way to get out of the house, learn more about home maintenance (important as the owner of two homes), and take advantage of employee perks like discounts. Little did I know that…
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Reflections on the Holidays, a Quiet Christmas, and a Refreshing New Year
Between a bustling holiday season, ringing in the New Year, and navigating the first snowstorm of the year, I have so much to share with you all! The holidays were a mix of fun, relaxation, and unexpected realizations, and I’m excited to recap the highlights. Our holiday celebrations kicked off with a little twist this…
