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The Comfort Trap: Staying Fit as a Dad Who Lives in Sweats
As a Dad: One thing I’ve learned as a full-time dad and entrepreneur is the beauty—and challenge—of wearing comfortable clothing. Hoodies, sweatshirts, joggers—they’ve become my go-to wardrobe. I mean, I don’t have a 9-to-5 that requires a suit and tie, and honestly, that’s one of the perks of this lifestyle. But here’s the catch: comfort…
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Is Valentine’s Day a Young Person’s Sport?
Tomorrow is Valentine’s Day, and this year, I’ll be spending it solo. With my wife away, I thought about going out to support a friend’s event, but instead, I’ve decided to stay home and embrace the luxury of solitude. As I think about the day ahead, I can’t help but reflect on who we see…
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Wife Not Home: Finding Peace in Solitude
On Tuesday, my wife and daughter left for St. Lucia to attend her sister’s grandmother’s funeral. It’s Thursday now, and I can honestly say I’ve been living in what feels like “home alone heaven.” With the house to myself and no work until Saturday, I’ve had the rare luxury of setting my own schedule—going to…
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The Art of Being a Multifaceted Entrepreneur
In 2015, I made a life-changing decision. I left my job as an accountant for a major NYC nonprofit to dive headfirst into the entrepreneurial world as a full-time events producer. Was I fully prepared? Did I have a rock-solid plan? Not even close. But I took the leap anyway, fueled by a “do or…
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Night Out: Supporting a Friend and Embracing the Vibes
Last night, I stepped out to support a friend celebrating the two-year anniversary of her dating community. Initially, I wanted to bring my wife, but living in an area without nearby family and finding reliable babysitters can be a challenge. So, I got dressed, spritzed on the cologne my wife gifted me for Christmas, and…
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A Family Adventure at the DC Auto Show: Choosing Our Next Car
After six years of holding out on buying a new car, my wife and I finally decided it’s time for a change. Our daughter is older now, with activities and schedules that require more flexibility. While I’ve designed my work schedule around her needs, there are times when we simply need a second car to…
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Finding Purpose Beyond the Hustle: A Call to Brotherhood
As I prepare for my annual trip to St. Lucia Carnival, I received a message from a brother expressing interest in joining the experience. Our conversation started off mainly via text, detailing what the trip entails, but as the messages went back and forth, I sensed some confusion. So, I decided to pick up the…
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Married Man: A Journey of Faith, Patience, and Love
Sometimes, I still can’t believe I’m a married man with a daughter. Marriage was always something I wanted eventually, but for the longest time, I couldn’t see how it would happen. My parents have been married for over 40 years, and growing up, I witnessed firsthand the sanctity and significance of marriage. Because of this,…
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Home Late for the Holidays
Coming home always feels like stepping into a time capsule—familiar sights, sounds, and scents instantly transport me back to childhood. This trip was no different. As I pulled up to my mom’s house, I noticed she had moved her car into the street so I could park in the driveway. It was a small gesture,…
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Damned if You Do, Damned if You Don’t
Last year, I hosted my very first St. Lucia Carnival Summer Escape, and like any first-time experience, it came with its lessons. For accommodations, I picked a local hotel in a fantastic location. The only downside? The decor was a little… underwhelming. My thinking was practical: carnival-goers wouldn’t spend much time at the hotel anyway,…
