It’s been three years since I got my daughter her bike, and now that she’s turning 7 in October, it’s long overdue for her to learn how to ride without training wheels. This weekend, we finally decided to tackle it.
I took her to the park and parked in the lot, initially thinking we’d use the bike trail. But after looking around, I figured the parking lot was a better, more open space to practice.
She’s such a character—full of big dreams but often expecting someone else to do the work to make them happen. This was the perfect opportunity to teach her that life doesn’t work that way.
After showing her the basics, giving her a few helpful tips, and encouraging her with some motivating words, something amazing happened: she didn’t want my help anymore. She was determined to figure it out on her own. Her resolve made me so proud.
At one point, she started comparing herself to other kids she’s seen riding their bikes. I reminded her to block out the noise and stay focused on her own progress. “Don’t worry about what others are doing,” I told her. “Just work hard and get good at what you’re doing.”
This moment was about so much more than learning to ride a bike. It was a chance to teach her about resilience, patience, and determination—skills I pray will carry her through all the challenges life will throw her way.
And it all starts with this bike.
Calcie | Social Dad DC
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